**Warning male readers...turn back now**
I mean it!
Okay ladies, are they gone?
First, my little problem cleared up. Solved itself. Almost four weeks late, but better late than never!
Obviously I'm happy not to be pregnant, have cancer, or some other womanly medical issue. But the other reason I'm happy is because about six weeks ago, I bought a Diva Cup and have been weirdly looking forward to trying it out.
Let me explain...
Growing up, I was never one to have bad menstrual cramps or extremely heavy flows. But over the last few years, since having Thing 1 and Thing 2, it seems like this has changed. In fact, my cramping is so painful now, that almost every month, I have at least one day where all I want to do is take some Pamprin, lay in bed and sleep.
Recently I was doing some research into ways to deal with these painful cramps, and came across a blog written by a woman who has endometreosis. She said that one of the things her doctor had recommended to battle her own problems was to stop using tampons, because (to paraphrase) once a month you are sticking an object made up of nasty chemicals up your who-ha. Some suggestions of things to use instead...pads (yuck, no way!) or a menstrual cup (what is that).
I don't know if I'd ever heard of menstrual cups before. If I had, I just dismissed them and didn't really consider them long enough to remember.
I'm not going to bother boggling you down with all of the facts, when there are so many great websites on the facts and benefits of menstrual cups. (How to Use A Menstrual Cup)
I'll just give you my experience.
1. Putting it in the first time was weird. But it's gotten easier and less weird every time.
2. Taking it out the first time was hard. I started to panic a little, thinking I might have to go to the ER. But I relaxed, kept baring down (practice your kegels ladies!), and used some toilet paper to get a better grip. Then, the trick is (at least for me), to rock it back and forth as you pull down. And again, like putting it in, it's gotten much easier each time I take it out. (And much faster)
3. Like a tampon, I can't feel it when it is in place.
4. I like that it is re-usable: environment. I used cloth diapers for my boys partly because I wanted to reduce my non-biodegradable waste footprint, but had never really thought about how much waste I was putting into the environment myself every month.
5. I like that it is re-usable: financial. I got my cup off Amazon.com for $23 + shipping. I've read that one cup, properly cared for, usually lasts about one year. That should save me a good chunk of change, considering I'd spend at least that for a two month supply of disposable tampons.
6. I've experienced no leaking. None. Not a drop. (Knock on wood!)
Anyway, I know this blog is TMI. But, I just wanted to share in case there were other women out there who had never heard of menstrual cups either and would be interested in giving them a shot.